School is a huge factor
in the older adopted child's life, with a lot of additional stresses
to cope with and often a lack of language to explain things in a way
that is not embarrassing or properly understood by peers. And there
are TV, Internet, games and other distractions to deal with. The parents
need to be aware of proper transition time necessary for any child to
"change gears."
Marcie
Pickelsimer
Sleep
tips for adopted children
All children need help learning to fall asleep,
stay asleep, and learning to self soothe if they wake during the night,
as we won't always be there for them.
Susan
M. Ward
Challenges:
When older adopted children won't go to bed
She would get wild in the bath. Run around the house
when I was trying to put her pajamas on. Scream and yell when I tried
to get her into bed. Leap out of her bed, run up and down the stairs,
and jump from one piece of furniture to the next
Dawn
Sticklen
Back-to-school
for middle school adopted children
While most children look forward to returning to
their friends and a more rigid routine, many are filled with anxiety
about starting a new year, and perhaps even a new school. Often this
stress is most prominent in the middle school-aged child
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Too
much Internet for your child?
Chinese experts debate the nature of Internet
addiction
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