When we adopted Gracie from Russia at 19 months old, we knew the potential
existed for a variety of post-institutional issues. We plugged in with
excellent therapists within a year of coming home and began working
on her symptoms of attachment disorder, mild markers for fetal alcohol
exposure, and general anxiety. We were relieved to discover she was
overall very responsive to intervention, but finding a way to reduce
her anxiety remained elusive. Over the years, we watched our little
girl become more and more anxious until drug therapy was suggested as
a last resort. Gracie's issues were so complex and severe that we were
eventually referred to a developmental pediatrician who began digging
more deeply into Gracie's issues.
A sleep study revealed four separate (but likely related) sleep disorders.
The results were so severe we began working with a pediatric neurologist
who specialized in sleep disorders in children. A variety of medications
were tried over the next few months but nothing improved her sleep.
And worse, the medications fueled a downward spiral that eventually
landed us in a psychiatrist's office with a child in crisis. /p>
Our developmental pediatrician was the first to suggest an emotional
service dog might be a good strategy for helping Gracie deal with her
anxiety and depression. At the time it seemed an unlikely solution,
but when the psychiatrist told us that hospitalizing our 8 year old
was all she could think to try next, I knew I needed to find another
option. We took Gracie out of an institution at 19 months old. I could
not bear the idea of placing her back in one. Suddenly, the doctor's
unusual suggestion was more viable. While we investigated other alternative
approaches, I also began researching how to find the right dog for my
child.
Important Definitions
Much has been reported about the use of animals in service capacities.
There are several important terms that need to be defined in order to
fully understand this discussion. According to www.servicedogcentral.com,
"Service dogs are individually trained to perform tasks that
mitigate the disability of their owner. There are many types of service
dogs and many different types of tasks that might be performed, based
on the disability of the individual owner, their abilities and limitations,
and their specific needs." Typically, we would not be talking
about a service dog for a post-institutionalized child, unless the psychiatric
needs were so severe a legal argument could be made that the presence
of the dog is required for basic level functioning. Contrast that with
"therapy animals," which have no legal definition. They are
most often animals who are pets first, but also provide support services
such as visiting hospitals or nursing homes or even in schools or libraries
as "reading buddies" for children.
Recently, a third distinction has developed: Emotional Support Animal
(ESA). An ESA is a therapeutic pet, usually prescribed by a therapist
or psychiatrist or medical doctor that helps people with emotional difficulties
or loneliness. An ESA cannot go everywhere a service animal goes, but
usually does have privileges in rental housing and may travel in the
cabin of aircraft.
Finding the Right Dog
Through personal contacts in the dog training community, we were able
to match Gracie with Bandit, an 8 year old Australian Shepherd from
Windypine Kennels in Florida. Although he was an older dog, Bandit was
selected for his even temperament and history as a therapy dog. For
Gracie, it was crucial her dog not match her anxious energy, but rather
provide the balancing neutral energy she needed to facilitate the de-escalation
of her emotional state. Bandit was trained by Aimee Kincaid of Boomerang
Kennels in Florida. In addition to basic obedience training, he was
evaluated in a variety of social situations with children. His temperament
was tested to better predict his reaction in the presence of anxious,
loud, and unbalanced behavior from children. But the connection Bandit
and Gracie had from the beginning was not something the trainer could
create.
Shawna Swanson is a trainer with the Soldier's Best Friend project,
a non-profit which connects soldiers with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
(PTSD) and emotional support dogs. She makes this important point: "the
bond between the dog and human is nothing that can be trained. It's
a relationship that has to form. In the case of emotional support dogs,
that bond, which is crucial to the success of the partnership, is not
guaranteed to exist with every dog. It may take trying several different
dogs before the magic happens."